Thursday, January 25
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This week's topic was submitted by Melonie, over at The Joy of Being Melonie. This delightful woman has SIX children and is going to school, so I somehow think this topic is near and dear to her heart!

How does one handle work, home and family (or a combination thereof) without having a nervous breakdown?

Two words. Alcohol. Ok, that's only one but if you drink enough, it will look like two. Not that I have had any experience with that.

I would fall into the category of working full time. For those of you who have been reading me for a while, you know that I have children and these children have an active life outside of school. Dance for the eldest, and soon to be Gymnastics for the child who is an accident waiting to happen youngest.

My husband and I both work full-time, and sometimes a little more, it can make the juggling act resemble something you might find at a circus. It's hard, but it can be done. I'm fortunate enough to have a spouse that is willing to really help out wherever possible.

We are both big on scheduling. We have to be, or otherwise there is no way we could do it. We have found ways of handling things that make it easier on both of us. For example, my oldest goes to dance four nights a week. We carpool with another lady down the street, so we are only doing the dropping off, or picking up each night, which is a big help for both families. Generally speaking, my husband does the carpooling, and I stay home with the youngest, helping her with her homework, cooking dinner or giving her a bath, depending upon the time he has to perform chauffer duties. Occasionally, I'll take over when he would prefer to stay home. It works for us.

I'm grateful to my employers for letting me flex my hours so that if my children have something they would like me to attend at school, I can. That means I have to work extra hours during the week to make up the time, but then my husband picks up the slack. We also take turns on getting the kids to doctor's appointments as well, so neither one of us has the burden of carrying that one alone.

Is it easy? Absolutely not. It's an exhausting schedule, to say the least but we manage.
We are a family, and we do what we need to do to make it work.

What about you? How do you manage it all?

To view other answers to this week's Blog Fodder topic, go here. I would love to see how the rest of you handle it.

Posted by Moogie at January 25, 2007 5:01 PM

Comments

Scheduling is a must sometimes isn't it? Sounds like you also have a lot of team work working for you too, though sometimes I just wish I had an extra hand adn another hour in the day!

Posted by: Bob-kat at January 26, 2007 5:24 AM

An accident waiting to happen, hmm ya trying to say something there moogie or should I just not ask, just think back to the posts about eldest daughters antics, or is it the fact that she's like her mom, "cute" that all the boys are gonna just look her way and not look where they are going and smack into something (that would be really funny to see).
Team work is a definate must, Speaking of which I gotta go look after the nephew tomorrow morning, I will resist from taking him bowling as it's well hmm EXPENSIVE!
Go execute schedule echo or is it's schedule lima tonight *laughs*

Posted by: Gopher at January 26, 2007 1:10 PM

I understand completely with 3 kids of my own, all my kids are pretty resigned to the lack of extra curricular activities they have because I work until 8pm 4 nights a week & most activities are not on my days off. Here from Micheles.

Posted by: Becky68 at January 26, 2007 7:08 PM

I can sympathize with the juggling of things kid related. Even though my youngest is now 17, the parental responsibilities don't go away when they turn the magical "18" (My older two are 19 & 22).

But tonight is "movie night," at the insistence of my 19 year-old...

Life is good,

Michele sends her regards,

Mike

Posted by: Mr. Althouse at January 26, 2007 7:08 PM

*glass of wine *shot of crown.
All set here..tee hee
I will need to repeat the above many times before I can see double.

Have a wonderful day!
*^_^
(=':'=) hugs
(")_ (")Š from
the Cool Raggedy one

Posted by: Raggedy at January 27, 2007 10:37 AM

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