Saturday, January 29

My daughter’s Science Project was due a couple of days ago, and will be judged at the end of the week. This time, it was my husband’s turn to help her. A few weeks ahead of time we were busy brainstorming with her. She had some ideas, so what we tried to do was ask her questions, and make her think up a project on her own.

Not as easy as it sounds. We had to really work at not deciding for her, not doing it for her, in other words, put her in control. As a parent, you want to see your child succeed, so it’s only natural that you want to be at the helm. The problem with that is, your child doesn’t learn in the process.

She did really well. Her experiment was to take four different materials, in this case, polyester, cardboard, cotton and a Band Aid, and determine which burnt the fastest. She had to keep a Log Book of her observations. The more detailed the better. She’s quite good at that and I had to keep myself from laughing out loud at what she wrote. Not that what she wrote was wrong, just completely not what I expected. A lot of what she said was normal. Burning slow, doesn’t burn only melts, lot’s of smoke, only burns if you hold it up in the air. The typical things.

But then there were the atypical. My favorite was an observation she made on the Band Aid. “When Dad tried to light the band aid, the sticky part wouldn’t burn. But when he picked up the Band Aid, the pad burned and he burnt his finger. Note: Do not try to light a band aid with bare hands.” Now THAT is what children would write. Which is why I was glad we decided to let her “drive.” She called the shots. The only thing she didn’t do was set the materials on fire. She made a note about that as well. Personal safety.

She assembled everything on a thick poster board, which portrayed the before and after. She put the materials (burnt and unburnt) in blank CD cases in the center. It made for an easy way to display all of the items. She labeled everything using our label maker. On one side of the board she listed the materials used. On the other, she listed her observations on each material while burning (from Log Book). It turned out really well.

Whether she places in the science fair is not the point. The fact of the matter is she did this by herself, with little or no guidance from us. We were just the helpers if you will. She feels good about what she accomplished. That’s just one step closer to getting her to learn she is really quite remarkable. It’s going to be fun watching her discover that.

In that respect, my job is easy. I’m the cheerleader. The coach. The guidance counselor. The funny thing is, I’m learning right along with her.

Posted by Moogie at January 29, 2005 09:28 PM

Comments

Kids do say the funniest stuff. I remember one day, my boy was layin' on the bed with me and his mother, and we were askin' him what he wanted to be when he grew up. I thought he'd say the usual, Fire Man, Police Man, Doctor, etc... he couldn't come up with much. So we asked him, since he loved baseball so much, didn't he want to be a professional baseball player. With a straight face, he looked up, and said, "I can't.". ??? We said, why not? He explained it to us. He said that professional ball players make so much money, that he wouldn't be able to fit it all into his little teenage mutant ninja turtle wallet.

I said, son, I'll get you a bigger wallet if thats all thats keepin' you from it. ;)

Same boy wouldn't let me remove a splinter from his finger 'cause he said all off his "air" would come out if I did...

You can't make this stuff up...

Posted by: RedNeck at January 29, 2005 11:40 PM

Unfortunately I have to do a bit more "guiding" with my son, because left to his own devices...he will put out the most simple, quickest let's -get-this-done-in-a-hurry project he can think of.

Posted by: Suzanne at January 30, 2005 09:19 AM

I find not guiding more to be a big problem, but I keep reminding myself what do they learn if I do it and then I walk in the other room and call Sharon to talk me out of my controlling tendencies. I think her project sounds great and her mom sounds great too!

Posted by: Melonie at January 30, 2005 08:10 PM