Thursday, January 20

One of the best Christmas presents I ever got as a child was a set of pots and pans. Well, they were an old set, but my mother knew she was getting some new ones so she gave her old set to me.

I had alot of fun with those. You have to understand, I was a child with a vivid imagination. Heck, I'm an adult with a vivid imagination when it comes right down to it.

My father traveled alot when I when I was growing up. I really loved to make him "meals" with my pots and pans. I even had some wooden spoons to add to my kitchen. That same year I got some poker chips as well. Poker chips make great pretend food. I would stir up soups, carefully simmering them in the pot, so that the minute my father would walk through the door (when he was not travelling) I could serve him up a gourmet meal.

Bless his heart. How he digested all of those tiny plastic discs, I'll never be sure. I'd make him a steak, corn on the cob and a baked potatoe. All in my mind of course, but my father had the capability of making me believe I was the best cook on earth. Besides my mother of course.

Looking back, I realize just how much he did for me by fueling my imagination. He would work all day, come home, eat my delicious meals and make me feel like a queen. As a working mom, I've come to realize just how much effort that really does take. But I also understand why he did it. All it takes is for me to look at my children's faces when I agree to play with them, or eat their freshly cooked meals, do a puzzle, or watch one of their favorite TV shows. It really isn't much for me, in the grand scheme of things. But for them, you would think I gave them the world.

When I was older, I got an Easy-Bake-Oven. I made so many cakes. My mother lovingly helped me prepare them, as well as the icing. I would proudly present these little cakes to my father. They couldn't have been much more than four inches across but the icing must have been at least 2 inches thick. Of course I had to decorate them. Mom had all kinds of stuff I could use.

Dad would always have one of those cakes (I imagine he had to gag it down, but I never knew) for dessert, and he would take one for his lunch. I'm still amazed that he eats my "real" meals at home when he comes to visit.

My folks taught me alot about what it means to be a parent. It only takes a small amount of time to make your child feel like they are the most important thing on earth. Dinner can wait just a bit. You can fold the laundry later. Does that floor really need to be mopped right this instant?

I don't know about you but I'm going to go get my fingernails painted by the girls. They tell me that neon green with glitters is all the rage right now.

Oh...and for my friend Rob, I'll make sure they paint my toenails red.

Posted by Moogie at January 20, 2005 05:47 PM

Comments

I loved this post. What a wonderful father...

Makes me smile.

Posted by: Christina at January 20, 2005 08:25 PM

Oh wasn't the cooking so much fun? I did the same only used stuff I found outside like grass, berries, crunched up brown leaves, sand....
Your parents sound wonderful.

Posted by: Suzanne at January 21, 2005 09:21 AM

Great parents.

One of the Hunter's favorite toys as a kid was his sister's Easy Bake Oven.

Posted by: TW at January 21, 2005 04:00 PM

Suddenly I'm feeling guilty about this terribly blog habit I've picked up... ; )

Posted by: Key at January 21, 2005 05:43 PM

Hmm sounds like wonderful parents, hmm mines did the best they could and look how it turned out... lol

Posted by: Gopher at January 21, 2005 05:48 PM

I loved this post. I remember my dad eating all my Easy Bake oven confections. My mother told me later in life that I had a knack for never fully baking them, but my dad ate them anyway! Boy, he loved me. You were blessed to have them for parents.

Posted by: Melonie at January 22, 2005 12:11 AM